难过的一周

最近好像全身病了一样...

伤风,感冒,喉咙痛,头痛... 全部一起来探望我.

都不知道怎么了.

今天更是莫名其妙的心脏绞痛了两下...

心脏病吗?

应该不会吧...

还是心理的心痛也感染到了生理的心痛?

真是好难熬的一周...

我熬得过吗？

P/S: 生病好辛苦啊！=(

I am a Personal Assistant

What is the role being a personal assistant? A lot people ask me this question... so let me answer all of your question here. =)

It is similar to the role of secretary for a CEO/Manager/Boss. So what is the role of secretary? You need to pick up calls, reject the calls in a very polite way for your boss if he just doesn't feel like talking to that person, take note of all his appointments, make coffee for your boss and clients, and of course you must have the skill to deliver the coffee gently, lend your hands to your boss whenever he needs help even though it is your break hour etc.

However, as for my current job, I take care of the Accounts Payable too so I need to deal with all the suppliers as well. If there is a call for me, it is not good. All of them are chasing me for money. =.= So basically this is my current job scope.

Out of sudden, I mention about this because... this morning, my general manager forgets that he has an appointment with a client. With my reminder call for him, he just asks me to make the client a cup of coffee. *This is my first time making coffee for client* I cant remember when was the last time I made a coffee because after I came oversea, I am having those 3 in 1 coffee only IF I am having one. This also reminds me that how long I didn't make a cup of coffee for my dad. In my whole life, he is the only person who asks me to make him a coffee. When I mention MAKE... I mean really make it... with how many teaspoon of coffee beans & how many teaspoon of sugar & how much portion of milk etc.

When I was in high school...

"Hong Gee... Make me one cup of coffee!"

"Yier.... Why always me one? Why not Hong Ing?"

Then I'll go make the coffee unwillingly for him showing my black face then pass it to him.

When I was back in Penang during summer holiday...

"Hong Gee... I know you are the one who can only make me the BEST coffee in this world. PLEASE~~~"

He will then put a smile on his face like a kid.

"Yea lahh.... Of course lah! Okay~~~"

Then I will go to make him the coffee happily and feeling that it's my honored to make him this cup coffee. In my opinion, I think he feels the coffee tastes sweet more than caffeine flavour. =)

Back to my story... and then... I made the client a cup of coffee! Trial and error. Keep testing the taste. LOL Don't worry... I'm still a "professional" personal assistant. My saliva didn't drop any in it. Usually, as I am working in a hotel head office, when my manager needs coffee, he just instruct me to order from the hotel. What I need to do is just bring the coffee from level 1 to level 2. That's it. However, today my finance manager ordered 5 cups of cappuccino too as there were other guests too. *while the client was still there*

In the end... the client had the coffee that I made. *sure tak boleh one* but I had the cappuccino made by the hotel. HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHHAHAH. I know I'm lame. But I just feel like sharing this story around.

P/S: Monday is Public Holiday! But semua orang exam... =(

爱的3温暖

今天的天气很冷啊。冷得我都不想在街上行走，快步地想到办公室吹暖气。除了暖气，在冬天最享受的当然是喝杯热咖啡，握在手里最好不过了。

最近开始拿起了本书。。。阅读。很不可思议吧？哈哈。我自己也觉得很不可思议。它不是些什么百科全书可以增加知识，也不是什么浪漫爱情故事，只是一本记载了三个女生的成长历程。那是我妹妹买的。我问她为什么要买这种书？可是当我翻开了它，读着读着，还算不错的一本书。从中还看见了她们不同的人生道路。最近。。。不论我吃午餐，回家路途上，这本书都陪伴着我。

当中有一些我觉得很有意思的：

她的爸爸对她说：“不要为了家太辛苦的付出，在外工作，不需要计较，要开开心心的，不红也没关系。千万别担心，爸爸会养你，就算回来跟我吃粥也好。” - 读到这里，我觉得父爱很伟大。我爸爸也曾经对我说过类似的话。因为他说过，不论如何，你们都是我的宝贝女儿。=）

我觉得她的回复更是令我举脚赞同：“[家] 是我的根，我不灌溉它，它怎么滋养我，让我盛开？” - 我们都有责任为家里付出，我们才能盛开。因为没有父母，就没有我们。=）

这几天都下起大雨，我相信大家也跟我一样，很讨厌吧？因为我的裤子，鞋子都被雨淋的湿湿的。正当我也很讨厌雨季时，我又读到了这一段。。。

她的妈妈对她说：“我们总不能因为我们觉得下雨麻烦就要老天不下雨，那我们喝的水从哪来？我们要尊重自然现象，不可下雨的时候嫌弃，干旱的时候才求雨." - 这因为她妈妈是大自然的守护员，环保爱地球。虽然我的环保意识没那么强，不过还蛮认同的，因为我们往往都拥有太多东西而忽略了莫些得来得太容易的东西。

她们因为工作而少了许多时间陪伴家人。。。相信我们这些在外国读书的也差不多吧？她说：

“离开了家，少了很多真切，深入地参与，少了一些来不及记清楚的瞬间。我带走的是父母给我的身体，所以从最顶端的发丝到脚趾头小妞妞最小的一片指甲，我都珍爱着。我一直带着的是他们的爱。在我快乐的时候，在我有力量的时候，在我爱人的时候，这些爱陪着我，贴着我；在我孤独的时候，在我沮丧的时候，在我放弃的时候，暖暖的包着我，滋养我，让我知道我不只是我。” - 不论有些什么难题，父母的爱永远都在我们身边，要知道家里的门永远为我们打开。

我只翻阅了大概四分之一，但是我看见了她们三个对家人的疼爱。虽然。。。她们各自都有不同的方式去表达对家人的爱。=）

P/S: 好像有点罗嗦。。。Aiya。。。这是summary嘛。我的头很痛啊! T.T Take Care!

Stay strong guys

I get to know a secret from someone. Oppss... shhh.... I feel so happy for her because this is the first time I see her falls in love. =DDD No matter decision she is making, I'll stand by her side. Always... I will. =)

Finally, here comes my Saturday. I didn't do anything much because everyone is having final exams soon. Even though I am not having any exams, I feel nervous for everyone. I keep telling around....

"shoo shoo.... go study! You must study now! Good Luck!"

I dare not disturb anyone cause everyone seems to be busy. =( Even my sister.... =(((

Finally, I get to meet them tonight for dinner. We didn't meet up for one whole week, this make me miss them so muchiee. Everyone of them... topic carrying around non-stop as there are just too much to update! =DD It is a great night to catch up with everyone I would say. =D

Suddenly I found this interesting comic with the title "A Best Friend" =)

P/S: All the best for finals! =)

Special post to UK

I had a dream last night. Although I cant judge how real is it, I just know that my tears dropped. It reminds me a dream that he had before. His tears dropped at that time too and I laughed at him. Now... I understand why he had this kind of feelings. It's not comfortable at all. It is really uncomfortable.... my heart is pain.

While I was feeling uncomfortable, the comfort from my parents is always the best. After a day of work, their greetings just make my day. Especially the compliment from my dad. =) He said he realised his daughter is getting more pretty. =DD This is the best part of the conversation.

Sometimes I find myself really a lucky girl. I'm blessed because I have them supporting me all the time. Really ALL of them. While I need them, I make one simple call, they will be there for me. =D Especially him. He touched my heart... He is the one supporting me all the time. No matter what obstacles I am facing, whenever I need him, he will be there for me. I just want to say... I am glad to have you. He knows every single little pieces of me. Even though he's thousand miles away from me, he still care me whenever I need him. Can you imagine how touched would it be when I keep asking him... "What is your time there?" While he just set my Sydney time in his lappy all the time? I feel so embarrassed. lol

He is my lovely and strong cousin! =DDD

I know he is stressed with his final exams as this would be his last semester. Anyway, all the best for his final presentation and I am waiting for his turn to graduate! Your girl will be there soon with you lahhh.... :P I think this is the last picture we took way back one and half year ago. Don't really know when will be the next time we can take picture. =( That's why I like to take picture around and capture the precious moment I have with everyone around me cause I treasure every single moment I spend with everyone. ^^

P/S: I don't know what I want. But... I think I should make a decision by myself instead of waiting or asking around for the answer.

两种老公，两种人生。

A:她：“老公。帮我接杯水呗。”
他：“石头剪子布。谁输了谁去。”
她：“算了。我自己去吧。”

B:他们坐在一起看韩剧。她起身。他问“干吗去？”
她：“去接杯水。”
他：“你坐这看吧。我去给你接。”
女人要求不高，她对男人唯一的要求就是“疼她”

你可以什么都没有，只要你疼她，她就有足够的勇气把自己的下半辈子交给你。

A:他晚上下班。给她打电话“宝贝儿。我晚上和朋友出去吃饭。”
她：“你不是答应我陪我逛街的吗？”
他：“改天吧！”
她默默地流泪。为什么每次都是这样？

B:他下班的时候打电话给她:“亲爱的。别人给我一张奥运会的票。巴西队啊！一会儿我去
看球了啊。”
她：“哦。这样啊。好吧。”
他：“怎么不高兴了？”
她：“你忘了。上周说好今天我朋友和她男朋友请我俩吃饭啊。”
他：“哎呀。对不起亲爱的。我忘记了。那我把票给别人吧。我陪你去吃饭。”
她：“不要了。吃饭可以改天。或者你先去看。我们等你。”
他：“那不行。答应你的事情必须得做到。再说你自己跟他俩在一起像电灯泡似的。你肯定不舒服啊”
她：“没事……”
没等她说完，他很强势的告诉她“好了，听我的，你收拾一下，我一会儿去接你。”

其实女人不是不懂事，只是她需要碰上一个懂事的男人，其实情侣之间是可以互相的。


A:他：“我晚上出去吃饭了啊。”
她：“几点回家？”
他：“九点之前肯定回家。”
九点半，她：“你怎么还不回来啊？”
他：“十点。肯定回家。”
十一点。十二点。一点。两点……
后来，她不再打电话催他，因为她知道，对于不守承诺的男人，一切“肯定”都是“未必”。

B:他：“我晚上出去吃饭。九点之前肯定结束。然后我俩去看电影。”
她：“你能那么快就结束吗？”
他：“放心吧。我答应你了就一定能！”
快到九点的时候。他：“收拾一下吧。我马上就到你家了”

信任，是在一件一件小事中建立起来的。


A:她生理期。身体不舒服。顶着疼痛洗衣服。收拾屋子。
他坐在电脑前面玩网络游戏。
她干完活。躺在床上。长出了一口气。
他看了她一眼：“宝贝儿。辛苦了！”然后转过头。继续玩他的游戏。

B:她生理期。很难受。起身准备洗衣服。
他拽住她：“你去床上躺着。我来！”
她：“你会做家务吗？你自己洗过衣服吗？”
他：“不会做可以学着做啊。以后你身体不舒服的时候。我当然得独挡一面！”

女人需要的不只是甜言蜜语，哄她几句，她也许会给你一个微笑

但是实实在在的呵护，她会对你一辈子的感恩，并且会回报给你一个温暖的家。


A:她给他拿了一包榛子。然后她去洗衣服。
回来的时候。榛子已经被他吃得所剩无几。

B:她拿给他一包榛子。然后自己去收拾屋子。
回来的时候。她看见电脑前面放了一堆剥好的榛子仁。

女人很感性。她炫耀你对她的体贴，就好像炫耀克拉钻一样。

这么廉价的买卖，用一点心思就能收获无比的财富。


A:他说：“你是最好的。”
她问：“我哪好？”
他：“学历高、能力强、长得漂亮、对我又这么好。”
她笑了。

B:他：“你是我所遇到最好的女孩儿。”
她：“我哪好？”
他：“你对身边的每个人都很友善、很无私、对人对生活总是很感恩、一个人有一颗善良的心、会让周围的人感觉到温暖，你是我见过最善良的女孩儿，伤害你的人都应该下地狱！”
她哭了。

一个人，是因为你对他好，所以觉得你好。
一个人，是因为懂得你的好，所以想要对你好。


幸福的恋人，首先应该是一对彼此欣赏的知己

你认为你是哪种老公呢？

P/S: Nice Picture... =)