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What is the meaning of LOVE?

This few days, I found out that most of the friends around me are facing the same problems...
then, it makes me keep thinking of this question for a couple of days....
What is the meaning of LOVE?
I believe everyone have their own definition on it....

Let me tell all of you....
Love for a girl is their everything....
Love for a guy is meaningless....

A girl can do anything for a guy when she really love him....
but once a guy break her heart, a very deep hurt on the girl...
there's no way back for the relationship....

A guy can do anything for a girl too when he is tackling her...
Once the relationship begins initially, everything is lovely....
As time goes by, arguements create....
Guys will feel bored one day if he has facing a girl for a period of time...
If you ask me about the expired date of a relationship, I will tell you that it's depends on both the girl and the guy....

Girls....
Please don't put all of your time on a guy.....
it's useless...
all the guys in this world are the same species...

Guys...
Please don't put all of your time on a girl too...
give her some freedom....
but please put all of your heart on the girls' you really love too....

I want to ask you all a question....
Do you all feel that every relationship between a girl and a guy is the same?

Before a relationship starts, everthing is beautiful....
no matter what he/she does, all of you will feel very beautiful....
once the relationship starts, arguements start....
finally, normally all of them will break up their relationship...
then, both of them couldn't be friends anymore...
All of these are just a "recycle"....

That's why I would like to advice all of you...
If you wish to keep a good friend relationship with our boys' / girls' friends...
please dont's start a relationsip that you think it will end up with an unhappy relationship....

If you have confirm that this is the person that you want to walk along through your whole life....
you may start the relationship....
but once you start it....
please treat the relationship seriously and both of you must try your best to strengten the relationships...

Everytime when having arguements, treat it positively....
it may be just a challenge provided to test your relationship....
but remember, when any arguements happen....
don't ever mention or simply say that " I want to break up".....
once this words come out from your mouth....
if it does happen, you will regret for your whole life....

Imagine that when both of you are manage to hold hands together....
when both of yours' hairs turn white....
you still can chit-chat with each other happily....
without arguements and worries....
I hope that all of you are manage to do it.....

P/S: Hope that everyone can last their relationship as long as ever....

4 comments:

Joe-Lene said...

Gee gee.. You're facing the same problem too? How's the guy d? The one you mentioned to us in Langkawi.. Tell u oo~ This morning during cheekeong's class, I sit beside u right. Have a sudden thought that time.. wanna ask you about you and that guy de.. but then din ask u la.. the now~ read your post.. so ngam~ heee..

Cheers cheers~ :)

huahua said...

gee..erm..i agreed with you..u facing the same problem like what joe ask ma?..anyway..every relationship have different problem..all are just depends on the couple only..remember one thing..your bf or gf not your everything..but if you are feel that they are everything for you..you will get hurt deeply when there is something happen between..

Hong Gee said...

Joe: haha... actually I'm not facing the same problem la... but some of my friends are facing it... don't why suddenly I felt that want to write this blog.... mah right lor... um... about that guy? I'l tell you later ya? ok?

Hua: Nola... I'm not facing the same problem la... Anyway... thanks for your greeting ya? I'm ok... hehe... All of you must listen to Hua Hua comment o~~ haha...

Hean said...

Ah... finally a decent looking blog. Easy to ready, great. :)

I always think Love is rather a big investment. And as oppose to normal investment, where you can see the trend, and make decent prediction of it, love, which involves human emotion, seems to be a rather toot thing. More often than not, it is not reciprocated.